By: VICTORIA WILSON on MAY 19, 2017
Saturn in Sagittarius trine Uranus in Aries; Venus in Aries opposite Jupiter in Libra; Sun enters Gemini (Saturday)
THE EMPEROR, SIX OF COINS & TEN OF CUPS
Venus and Jupiter currently oppose one another within the Aries/Libra axis, bringing conflict between ourselves and our partners to the surface. Maybe you’re looking at your closest partnership only to realize that your needs aren’t getting met within it. If you can’t distinguish between your identity and that of your partner, get some clarity.
Opportunity – THE EMPEROR
Who are you, and what you stand for? If your relationship leaves you feeling out of control, remember what it means to love yourself first. Too many people fall into the trap of believing its noble to put their partners before themselves, wearing selflessness as a badge of honor. But selflessness easily turns into resentment. You can’t support others unless your own needs are met. And the only person responsible for making sure your needs get met is you.
Warning – SIX OF COINS
Proceed with caution if you have a personal planet (Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus, Mercury) anywhere between 21 degrees Aries and 1 degree Taurus. Uranus is messing with you big time right now, making you feel like breaking up is the only way to make things right again. Sometimes that’s the right way to go, but other times it’s not. Either way, Uranus doesn’t care. He just wants you to take extreme measures, and he wants you to do it now. Cool your heels to avoid doing anything you’re only going to regret in the future.
The litmus test is whether you are getting just as much out of your relationship as you are putting in. The SIX OF COINS reminds us that the best relationships are those of equal energy exchange. It doesn’t feel good to always be the giver or taker. Find a way to restore the balance, or get out.
Advice – TEN OF CUPS
Focus on people who love you, not on people who are hanging around only because you have something to offer. Love is not about filling deficits, but enhancing what is already good thing.